"Media has been making a shameful and very inaccurate portrayal of nice guys like me for a long time now. Women have adopted the idea that these obsessive and stalking guys are some kind of common occurrence that is likely to happen to them."
This WAS a JOKE you Tinder women!
"Male gay friends of mine: DO NOT PHOTOSHOP this!"
Damn you Tinder women! Jeez. You’re all a bunch of scaredy-cats now. Jeez. Tinder women: Your perceptions and your inaction on this hook-up app performed as extreme caution, are very likely ruining your chances of finding me and of finding a great love of your life. Jeez.
I’m a nice guy! Really nice! I’m handsome and have no kids and am practiced at relationships and I have not hurt anyone since . . . . well I really am not sure! After months on this app I have experienced rejection by the absence of hot looking women who won’t “heart” me, it’s the media! It can’t be me! My profile is honest and forthright and I’ve got 5 great pictures of me and Tuvok (my really cute dog). Jeez. The media and paranoia they create are ruining my chances of finding the right woman. I am not being selfish in this article; This diatribe that expresses my frustration with finding love and intimacy is also very relevant to your chances of finding love and intimacy. Get out. It is far safer out here than you have been lead to believe! Jeez.
Media has been making a shameful and very inaccurate portrayal of nice guys like me for a long time now. Women have adopted the idea that these obsessive and stalking guys are some kind of common occurrence that is likely to happen to them. It may be that I actually appear to be sort of like the crazy guy in the recent Hollywood bullshit story called The Perfect Man - or something like that. I saw the trailer for this garbage and the new perfect guy is hiding under the woman’s bed. I would never do that unless that was part of sexual role-playing! Jeez. Except I would have you hiding under my bed in that particular fantasy. Take a chance! A nice guy bio (on this damn thing) is more likely to be true than not. If a guy like me is taking the time and effort to portray himself as a nice guy - he very likely feels good about who he is. He is showing you his confidence that his portrayal is true. This is a truism. Get this please so you and I can find love.
“Contact is all it takes
To change your life to lose your place in time
Contact, asleep or awake
Coming around you may wake up to findQuestions deep within your eyes
Now more than ever, you realizeAnd then you sense a change
Nothin' feels the same
All your dreams are strange
Love comes walkin' in
Some kind of alien
Waits for the opening
An' simply pulls a string” Pull that string ladies. Love will not come walking in unless you open the door. Contact is all it takes. Contact is always kind of chancy. Jeez. Thank you Van Halen!
Tinder women; You will never find a sociological study that shows you the number of nice guys who can handle rejection. You will never find a slew of stories about happy meetings of seemingly perfect men who are stable and don’t make drama and don’t get obsessive. Just won’t happen. I’ve got no media advocates! Those stories are boring! Jeez. That scenario of a meeting a great guy who cannot emotionally handle a rejection from the object of his lust and desire is truly rare in our post-industrial and very politically correct and now stalker punishing society. Jeez. It is unlikely to happen to you Tinder Women! The world is NOT Law and Order Special Victims Unit! Jeez. Stop watching that bullshit. Get out of the house! Meet several guys and I’ll bet money they can handle your rejection! The field of wildflowers is abundant with nice guys like me who will not harm you! Jeez. Those evil nice guys are unique and rare and so remarkable and so chosen to be stories! You would not watch anything if they showed you what is common. What should be expected! This later statement is a rule to live happily by. It pertains to the real state of life versus everything you see on television and the bullshit that comes out of Hollywood. This also very much pertains to all news stories about relationships gone horribly wrong. Wake up and smell the roses! Jeez. Those are stories you have been tantalizing your fears with. You watch them so you can experience fear vicariously. You are glad when those stories are over because you honestly feel it won't happen to you. Think about that for a few moments. Your subconsciousness, what's biological role is to protect you is cementing those stories into your mind to possibly be cautionary real-life possibilities to teach you to be cautious. Being cautious is something you need to do as a compartmentalization, so that you can proceed into activities and then be genuinely safe in real life. Caution is good. I'm a very cautious guy. But I compartmentalize those imaginings as what may be and not what is likely. Please do the same. Your paranoia will overcome you and prevent great true love and intimacy stories! Jeez.UPDATE: Evening: Then again I am living in Connecticut, USA. The women in this part of the United States are very much walking refrigerators. I keep forgetting this. I lived in California for a decade, where sexual hang ups are pretty much ancient history. A nice guy cannot even wave hello to a typical attractive woman on the street here, without her dialing 911 or scurrying off to get to safety. Usually a woman here will return a friendly hello with a "You pervert!" expression and run off like Little Red Riding Hood after her wolf encounter. Jeez. Get me out of here! Help!
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